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  • Are YOU SURVIVING… or THRIVING?

    Definition SURVIVE - to live or “EXIST” despite hardship or catastrophe.Definition of THRIVE - to prosper, flourish or succeed. To grow vigorously. Honest realization 👏I’ve been stuck in survival mode most of my adult life. 🤢 Circling the drain! EXISTINGYes, I have had amazing moments where I thrived. I’m THRIVING NOW! 🤗 But… I kept repeating the same situations over and over again …. here’s why!Doing this because you (I) have learning and healing to do is hard! Healing from those things seems very hard! Most people are fearful to open up the proverbial “Pandora’s Box” because the situations they do remember and know about their personal history are hard…

  • How To Inspire A Sheep

    Did you know that when you put crabs in a bucket they actually hang on to each other so much that they will pull any crab who tries to get out of the bucket back in? I frequently remind people to avoid holding each other back when someone is reaching for a new goal or trying to see a dream come to fruition. You hear the naysayers say things like "I can't believe you are going to do that!" or "I would never do that!" What is worse is what you hear in your head... "Am I good enough?" or " Who do you think you are?"...  I could go…

  • The First Day of The Rest of My Life

    I am a rebel. I have always believed that rules are made to be bent, challenged and often broken in the right situation. I also now realize that unless you understand all of the rules, you should tread cautiously where rules affect other people. "Big Picture" kind of things.   You know.... like the butterfly effect or ripples on the water. The things you do, affect others whether you are aware of them or not. I have always tried to help others. Often times tried to mold people into what "I thought of who they should be",  I now know that it is not my job or my business. Just…